Freshman in college dating senior in college
A 17 year old is at a different place developmentally than a 14 year old.They've experienced a lot of things that 14 year old hasn't yet. They're almost done with high school, where the freshman is just starting out.Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! There were freshman at my school that did those things. The 14 year old was a friend that I knew for a long time.Some forums can only be seen by registered members. I wouldn't want my 14 - 15 year-old running around with someone newly licensed with his own car. A lot of senior girls are into college guys so it can be slim pickings if seniors stick to their grade.The only time she balked was when a senior asked her to Sr Ball when she was a freshman.
We had a rule about when our daughter could start dating, not until she got to high school.
If I had a daughter heres what I would say to the guy ...after good guidance through the years with the girl....... a) She would like to have a future one day...wouldn't you ?
b) If you violate her, regardless of permission , I will want to speak to you as the behavior is NOT ALLOWED PERIOD c) If this happens, and you have a weak manner with regards to seriousness in contribution to girls life..
Just based on my own experience, I generally saw those pairings consist of an older guy and a younger girl more often than a senior girl dating a freshman boy.
With that much of a power/experience differential, I can understand why it would be a concern.