Dating narcissistic man
As the Narcissist withdraws, the target starts to cling and your demands for his attention and your need to understand what’s happening, grate on his nerves.
The harder you cling the more the Narcissist pulls away.
They shower their targets with attention, compliments and literally sweep them off their feet.
They place their target on a pedestal, idolize and worship them.
I don’t feel like I belong anywhere or with anyone.” Narcissists are completely self-absorbed and are oblivious to the wants and needs of others.
They enter into relationships in an attempt to fill this void and to make sure that they have someone who is always available for sex, an ego stroke or whatever need they may have.
Their target is the greatest thing since sliced bread.
Here the Narcissist is ecstatic, full of hopes and dreams.
They must be attractive, popular, rich or extremely gifted in some area.
People usually get into relationships for love and the need to connect and bond with another.
Narcissists get into relationships for entirely different reasons.
The Devaluation Stage The Over-Evaluation phase, if you’re dealing with a Somatic Narcissist, usually lasts anywhere from a few weeks to a couple of months, just long enough for the Narcissist to be confident that they have secured their target’s love and devotion.
Unbeknownst to the target, what they were witnessing in the early phase was the Narcissist’s false self.