Best first email internet dating
Move into your 50s and 60s, and the competition can get fierce.
(Unfortunate, but the truth.) Having a fantastic profile is a must, but coupling that with the art of writing emails sets you up to be a winner in the game of online dating…and finding love.
Forget about “The Rules” crap and the idea that if you take the lead it will affect his manhood somehow.
Let him know you’re looking for the same thing and how cool it will be when you find it.
(Another side note: if you’re looking for a lifetime partner or marriage, I recommend that you don’t prioritize contacting a man who doesn’t, in some small way, indicate his interest in a forever relationship.) Everyone likes to be complimented, right?
It goes something like this: If Susie’s email is landing in the inbox of a relatively handsome 50 or 60-something man with a pretty good profile, chances are Susie isn’t getting a date. A great email attracts, entices and begs to be opened. It reveals something interesting about you and inspires to start a conversation that leads to a date. ) You don’t have to follow this exactly or have it in a certain order. To practice, say out loud what you would say to him if you met him at a party.
Here’s my formula for writing emails when you’re dating online. Write it so it sounds like you, and so it shows YOUR PERSONALITY! Make your opening line enticing, intriguing, or flirty…and personal.